**"This timely guidebook is the essence of a simple, easily consumable, guide for grieving families through the loss of a loved one while pulling together the plans for funeral arrangements.
It is a must-read primer for anyone who is either preparing for the passing of a loved one or is suddenly thrust into the loss of a loved one and doesn't know what to do next. This guidebook is full of important information, and examples to utilize, from the funeral arrangements to the published obituary. Although blessed to have aging parents, I will undoubtedly use this excellent guidebook to assist me with their transition."**
Assistant Chief Curtis Clemons (Ret.) Gwinnett County Police, Lawrenceville, GA
"Don't Leave It Up To Us" is more than just a guide; it is a compassionate companion for those tasked with delivering death notifications and helping families navigate the complexities of grief and funeral planning. By initiating these conversations and documenting final wishes, we empower ourselves and our loved ones to navigate the grieving process with greater ease and respect.
It is with great humility that I present this book, written to assist those who perform the challenging duty of planning a funeral and delivering death notifications. This includes individuals in ministry, counseling, law enforcement, and military chaplains. These professionals often find themselves in the difficult position of informing families, friends, or loved ones about a death, whether it occurred naturally or suddenly. This task demands a sensitive and knowledgeable approach.
This book offers practical guidance on making death notifications, including the importance of gathering and conveying information accurately and empathetically. It highlights the notifier's role in providing ongoing emotional support and assisting with follow-up actions, such as contacting additional family members or coordinating with funeral homes. I have included a comprehensive guide for families to collect the essential information required by funeral homes. It also serves as a pre-planning tool for individuals to document their final wishes, providing significant relief to their loved ones.
Key Features:Practical Guidance: Step-by-step instructions for delivering death notifications with sensitivity and care.
Emotional Support: Techniques for providing ongoing support to grieving families.
Comprehensive Planning: A detailed guide to collecting essential information for funeral planning.
Pre-Planning Tools: Resources to document final wishes and ease the burden on loved ones.
Experienced Insights: Lessons and advice drawn from my experience as a police chaplain and EMT.
